Emotional Hunger vs. Physical Hunger

I tackle this subject today because I feel the need to bring it to light especially when it might not otherwise be discussed. Often times it is easy to notice that you or someone you care about has a problem with x substance (think: alcohol) but it can be harder to notice that you or your loved one are leaning on food as a crutch or using it in, an unknowingly abusive, way to your body by consuming too much or at times, even too little.

Eating when we are not physically hungry is called emotional eating and each of us experience it to some degree. Put another way, “emotional eating is eating in response to something other than hunger. Often times people eat out of stress, anxiety, anger, depression, and happiness. “ (https://www.sharecare.com/health/emotional-eating/what-is-emotional-eating) For example, we go to a birthday party and enjoy a piece of cake or we feel extremely happy about good news we received so we decide to treat ourselves - despite feeling hungry or not - with a yummy bite. In this sense, emotional eating can and does happen to each of us.

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While this habit and behavior is nothing to be ashamed of it is one that is usually brushed under the rug to not really be discussed. I am writing about this subject in part because I am quite familiar with it meaning I have dealt with it and from time to time, I have needed to remind myself the difference between emotional hunger and physical hunger. Whether eating to feel “social” (whatever that means!) or eating because you simply are distracting yourself from how you are truly feeling, I have experienced it. Another reason I bring this topic to light is to help you bring awareness to your own habits and behaviors for I am a firm believer that in sharing what we have learned in our experience, including during our struggles, we can help someone who might be going through the same thing.

Looking at the table below, The Eight Traits of Emotional Hunger, it becomes quite clear what is Emotional Hunger versus what is Physical Hunger. If it is something you want to remind yourself of, I encourage you to take a few minutes to study it and familiarize yourself with it. Again, we are focusing on the awareness and having awareness of when we are feeling emotionally hungry and physically hungry - we are not creating judgments in this space!

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When we can recognize the difference between the two, it becomes much easier to distinguish what our feelings are and more specifically, what emotions we are experiencing. Reaching for food or fueling our emotional hunger might seem like the easiest choice in the moment but we each know it really does not further our true ambitions and desires. When we are not tuned into our physical needs, we might be eating the healthiest ingredients and/or dish on the planet. However, it is still a response to emotional hunger and not physical hunger.

In challenging you to become aware of your emotional and physical hunger, I also challenge myself to stay awake, aware, and tuned into all of the emotions that come and go throughout the day. By doing this it becomes easier to recognize what we are experiencing and feeling. Even if you are feeling desperate for X (whatever your specific craving might be), remember that you have tools at your disposal to utilize that will help you become more aware so that you are not pushing away from or even avoiding certain emotions when choosing to eat in response to emotional hunger versus physical hunger.

Tools to utilize:

  1. Follow your breathe. In the moment, this might seem like the last thing you want to do but try it out. Give yourself the space and time to breath deeply - inhaling and exhaling - for ten counts.

  2. Make yourself a cup of tea. Boil the water. Prepare the tea and make a ritual out of. Holding the cup in your hands, feel the warmth of the cup. Inhale the aroma of the tea.

  3. Write down how you are feeling. This is an opportunity to become extremely intimate and honest with yourself and it does not need to take much time. Simply take a scrap piece of paper and write exactly how you are feeling. Are you feeling tired? Do you need a break? In writing, your feelings will be shown to you and then you can understand the thought process behind wanting to reach for X.

  4. Take some fresh air. Excuse yourself from wherever you might be and go outside or to an open window to breath in some fresh air. Giving yourself these moments of fresh air can be invaluable especially when you are on the cusp.

  5. Get moving. If possible, go for a short walk. Sometimes a brief change of scenery is just what we need.

I concede that the following five tools are not completely comprehensive. However, I believe them to be extremely useful when, after cultivating an awareness about habits and behaviors, we are learning ways to alter our experience and not emotionally eat.

Do let me know by commenting below if you have experience with this and the best way you have dealt with it.

Love & light!

You are invited...

Studying for the bar? Join me this Saturday, see your invitation just below.

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This presentation focuses on the non-black letter law essentials for passing the bar and I will be talking about the importance of the following:

  • practicing self-care,
  • stress management,
  • mindfulness, and
  • organization

as you continue to study hard and prepare yourself for the bar exam.

Together with the ICE Foundation, and, specifically, G.C. Murray we are creating a lively, light, and fun space to discuss the above topics (which also happen to be extremely close to my heart). Practical tips will be shared and I will speak a little about my experience preparing for the Florida bar - yes, all three times - and I am certain it will bring a smile to your face :) 

So I invite you to take a little study break, make yourself a cup of tea or a smoothie (coffee - anything you like!), and tune in!

I look forward to seeing you there. 

All of these pictures were taken directly by me during and throughout my prep experience.

A Word on Self Care

Self-care is an essential practice in my life day in and day out.  To me, it encompasses my habits, attitude, activities, and the way that I carry myself. If I feel run down or overwhelmed I am careful to  amend my schedule or take time for myself so that I can recharge and show up my best. 

While more and more self-love can be cultivated from self-care we must be mindful of our attitude towards ourselves. Whether we are internally criticizing the way X looks or comparing ourselves to others, we must be mindful and not judge ourselves when we are having these thoughts. We must recognize them, like clouds in the sky, and direct our attention towards something else, something that will make us feel confident, strong, and happy.  

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Happy International Women's Day!

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My dear friend! Today is yours, and so is every other day. Be happy, live your life fully, do whatever you want and may all you dreams come true! Happy Women’s Day!
— K. K.
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“Here’s to strong women.
 

May we know them.
 

May we be them.
 

May we raise them.”
 

– Unknown

 

 

 

Sending light and love to all women, today and everyday <3

Recent Reads

So. The last few months I have been become a total bookworm. I finished Love Warrior in three days. (UH OKAY!) So if you are looking for a good read, I recommend checking out the below. The links are affiliated. 

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Breaking Vegan by Jordan Younger 

A memoir based on her experience descending into and rising from orthorexia. Orthorexia is the coined term for the eating disorder that develops when someone has obsessive thoughts and behavior about eating healthy. The line is crossed between mindful, healthy eating when the person experiences symptoms from anxiety and might even accompany other eating disorders. Jordan's playful voice sets the tone for a smooth and insightful read. 

Let It Out by Katie Daleabout

A learn-by-doing book where Katie shares her journey through journaling, recovering from an eating disorder, and coming home to herself via self-love and self-acceptance. She details over fifty tools that y-o-u can utilize in your journal so light a candle, grab a cup of tea, your fave notebook and pen, and get writing! 

Love Warrior by Glennon Doyle Melton

Heart-wrenching memoir about Glennon's experience thus far in life. She experiences infidelity, has suffered from alcholism, and bulimia, and is living proof that you can recover and make the most of your deepest, darkest struggles. Her writing is thoughtful and at times humorous as I laughed out loud a few nights in my bed as I read before dozing into sleep. 

The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield 

Lent to me by one of my fave amiguitas, this book was an interesting read. I quote Wikipedia on  the alt, this "1993 novel by James Redfield that discusses various psychological and spiritual ideas rooted in multiple ancient Eastern traditions and New Age spirituality. The main character undertakes a journey to find and understand a series of nine spiritual insights in an ancient manuscript in Peru. The book is a first-person narrative of the narrator's spiritual awakening as he goes through a transitional period of his life."

Since I finished those I am currently on Not That Kind of Girl by Lena Dunham.

Have y-o-u read any of the books mentioned? If so, did you like? Or? 

 

Happy reading my friends :)

 

P.S. - Do you have any book suggestions for me? If so, comment below. 

WOMAN CODE by Alisa Vitta

Curious about your hormones? Want to learn how to sync up your cycle to your lifestyle?

Then this book was written for you.

Alisa has created a WomanCode protocol which provides ladies of all ages - teenager to late menopause - tools to help better understand our wondrous and beautiful bodies.  Whether you struggle with PCOS, want to ease what you experience each month during your moon cycle, or would like to get your body ready for a little one, you will learn so much from this book.

The information in this book could not be more aligned with the desire of wanting to live in your "natural beet" so check it out!

I purchased mine on Amazon and you can too, via the link below:
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Happy May 1st :) 

"Let's grow those flowers, ya'll"

Have you ever noticed after doing that one little daily habit or activity you love that you seem to feel healthier, happier, and and truly in your "natural beet?" This could be from going to your favorite exercise class, making your bed each morning to spending an afternoon with one of your favorite friends.  

My wish is to encourage Y-O-U to continue to utilize these moments, daily. To inspire you. To increase your feeling of wellbeing. And even to treat yourself on a moment to moment basis!  How rad is that? For each action adds to another and as my friend, Hieu, so wisely told me once,

"What you tend to grows, flowers or thorns."

My second wish is that you continue to investigate what you like and who you are by trying new things. Whether it be a yoga class, visiting a new country, or even taking an alternative route home this evening. You never know how one little tweak can make all of the difference during a day or how it might shed light on an experience that you had earlier. 

A few of my little habits include:

  • making my bed
     
  • sipping warm water throughout the day
     
  • 5 huge deep breathes filling your tummy and your chest, at any time of the day, preferably outside
     
  • "watering" my favorite interests & passions
     
  • walking in the fresh air
     
  • practicing yoga
     
  • stretching
     
  • moving my body in any way that feels good at that moment
     
  • turning music on and letting it raise my spirits
     
  • write a list of what you are grateful for


In any event, I encourage you and I cheer you forward in continuing with your fave daily habits while exploring new avenues and ways to make yourself feel good.  

Let's grow those flowers!

Do you have any special habit or activity that you do that energizes you and makes you feel calm in yourself? If so, please share by commenting below.

xo